How to be more interesting (Top tricks for self improvers)

 

Hey there have you been having conversations and you feel like you are being ignored, or you are not being given the right attention you deserve, or even more worse you try to make a contribution loudly and although you intended it to be funny but it wasn't ? And you felt really bad well if that is you do not worry today is your lucky day. Because in this article I will be laying down all the necessary tips and tricks and as well some principles which I repeat you should never break, on how to be extremely interesting and super engaging with your conversations, and as well being able to be fun and well spoken will allow you to close successful deals and so much more, so if you want to be the guy that lightens up everyone's mood when you enter a room be sure to complete reading this. They following are the tricks to follow to be more authentic and engaging in your conversations;

1. Always Smile when necessary : Lot's of people seem to not follow this trick because the think that initiating laughter first when the are saying something funny will make their conversation engaging, which might be "True" to a certain degree but it doesn't always work especially when the person you are talking to is not in the mood to laugh. But an alternative is acting normal when you say funny or things you know that are naturally quite engaging and by doing that you do not put yourself at risk (being the individual you are talking to not laughing). So even if he or she (the person you are talking to) is not laughing you will still stand a chance and overall you will feel better which is most important for your mental health and stability, because when your mind is right everything else will follow.

2. Avoiding Stupid Conversations : This is actually a crucial thing because with your life all you are trying to do is to be authentic and productive and by having conversations that you know will not get you anywhere will always result to something bad and as well try to seek validation with something right and always on the best place.

 3. Ask Open-Ended Questions

   - Instead of simple "yes" or "no" questions, ask ones that encourage others to share more about themselves. For example, instead of “Did you like the movie?”, ask “What did you think of the movie?” This shows genuine curiosity and keeps the conversation flowing.

 4. Listen Actively and Show Interest

   - A good conversation is a two-way street. Make sure to listen actively and show that you're interested in what the other person is saying. Use verbal and non-verbal cues like nodding, maintaining eye contact, or saying "That's fascinating, tell me more." People are more engaged when they feel heard.

5. Share Unique or Little-Known Facts

   - Incorporate interesting, unique, or quirky facts into your conversations. People are drawn to new information. You could say something like, "Did you know octopuses have three hearts?" or bring up a thought-provoking perspective on a common topic.

6. Use Stories to Illustrate Your Points

   - Telling stories, especially personal ones, makes your points more relatable and memorable. People love stories because they can connect emotionally and visualize what you are describing. Make sure the story is relevant and concise to keep it engaging.

7. Embrace Humor and Playfulness

   - Humor lightens the mood and makes conversations more enjoyable. Don't be afraid to inject light-hearted jokes or playful comments when appropriate. Being funny in a way that feels natural and respectful will make you more likable and engaging.

OK with that being said here are some Principles to guide your interaction with people, and by following this principles you are assured a better conversation ;

1. Be Curious, Not Judgmental

   - Show genuine interest in the person you're talking to. Ask questions with the goal of understanding them, not judging or forming quick opinions. Curiosity opens doors to deeper conversations.

2. Stay Present and Focused

   - Give your full attention to the conversation. Avoid distractions like checking your phone or drifting off mentally. Being fully present shows respect and keeps the dialogue rich.

3. Practice Empathy

   - Understand and connect with others on an emotional level. Try to see the world from their perspective. Empathy makes people feel valued and creates deeper bonds, leading to more engaging conversations.

4. Be Authentic and Vulnerable

   - Don't be afraid to show who you really are. Share your thoughts, stories, and feelings honestly. Vulnerability can be a powerful way to create authentic and meaningful connections with others.

 5. Use Body Language and Eye Contact

   - Your body language can speak volumes. Use eye contact, smile genuinely, and maintain an open posture. These non-verbal cues can make you seem more approachable and engaged, boosting the overall interaction.

6. Be a Storyteller

   - People are naturally drawn to stories. Weave personal experiences, anecdotes, or interesting narratives into your conversation. A well-told story can captivate attention and create a memorable connection.

7. Balance Talking and Listening

   - A great conversation is a balance between expressing yourself and giving space for others to share. Listen actively, but also contribute thoughtfully to the discussion to keep it dynamic and mutual.

 8. Ask Thought-Provoking Questions

   - Go beyond surface-level questions. Ask things like, "What inspires you most?" or "If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?" Deep, thought-provoking questions lead to more engaging and meaningful discussions.

9. Inject Enthusiasm and Positivity

   - Energy is contagious! Bring enthusiasm and positivity into your conversations. Smile, laugh, and be excited about the topic at hand. This draws people in and makes them more excited to talk to you.

 10. Be Open-Minded and Flexible

   - Approach conversations with an open mind. Be willing to explore different viewpoints and discuss a wide range of topics. Open-mindedness invites creativity and keeps conversations fresh and interesting.